I read The Gutsy Girl: Escapades for Your Life of Epic Adventure by Caroline Paul when I was travelling in Greenland in June 2016. I had first heard about Caroline Paul a few months before, in her Tim Ferriss podcast, and fell in love with her incredible bio (including credentials such as lunger, firefighter, paraglider, author, and pilot). For a book about being a gutsy girl, there couldn’t be a better author.
Yes, the book is aimed at younger girls, but that shouldn’t stop you from reading it. There was so much in the book that I would’ve loved to hear when I was that “shy and fearful kid”, but it’s just as welcome now in my twenties. And I think it would be for my forties, fifties, and onwards.
I don’t know about you, but I know my life is simply better when I can sea kayak, climb trees, and enjoy a sandwich on a mountaintop. Adventure balances out my occasional seriousness and inability to understand jokes. I’m no Bear Grylls, but I give myself permission to call myself an adventurer. It’s a title that you give yourself before others do. And when that’s how you define yourself, it’s pretty hard to live a boring life.
It’s so easy to hang on to our fears when all we need is a gentle nudge to remind us that our life should be a grand adventure. That’s just one reason to have books like The Gutsy Girl around us. Another reason? The beautiful illustrations.
Here’s an excellent summary of the book from Caroline’s website:
It’s Lean In for middle grade girls, set not in the workplace but on bicycles, tree branches, sea kayaks, and cliff edges.
If you’re a female adventurer on any level, you should read it. And buy it for all the young gutsy girls you know.
Notes and takeaways from the book
“What had happened to the shy and fearful kid? She was still there. But somewhere along the way I had decided that she wasn’t having a lot of fun. I wanted a life of Grand Adventure, the kind I had read about in books. So I started to kindly tell the shy and fearful girl to step back, and make way for the adventurous girl that was also there. The girl who really wanted to captain a milk carton pirate ship.”
“Adventure is worthwhile in itself.” —Amelia Earhart, pilot
“Never be limited by other people’s imaginations.” —Mae Jemison, astronaut
‘You’re there, but I’m not concentrating on you!’ I told Fear”.
“What’s wrong with this picture?” —Barbara Hillary, seventy-five-year-old retired nurse, upon hearing that no African American woman had been to the North Pole. She hired a personal trainer to get in shape, learned to ski, and went.”
“Daring makes a difference.” —Mae Jemison, astronaut
“Never give up, because that is just the place and time that the tide will change.” —Harriet Beecher Stowe, author, human rights activist
“ In 1895, Fanny Workman biked 2,800 miles with her husband across Spain—in a skirt. She also biked across North Africa and through India. But in 1898 she fell in love with mountaineering. Still wearing skirts and fashionable hats, she climbed peaks all around the Himalayas.”
“If you’re never scared, or embarrassed, or hurt, it means you aren’t taking any chances.” —Julia Sorel, artist
What’s the sentence you’re going to tell yourself day in and day out?
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“There’s a difference between being careful and living in fear. The former will keep you alive, the latter will make you a bystander in people’s lives.” —Anna Fitzpatrick, writer
“One day Roz Savage wrote herself two obituaries: the first for the person she actually was and the second for the person she wanted to be. Realizing the two obituaries differed mightily, she gave up her job as a management consultant, sold her house, and embarked on a life of adventure. She is best known for being the first woman to row alone across the Atlantic, Pacific, and Indian oceans.”
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.” —First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt
- Write your two obituaries, just like Roz Savage did. One for the person you are now and a second for the person you want to be.
- If you haven’t built anything lately, write down what you want to build, and why.
- Keep an adventure journal (remember, an adventure doesn’t have to be scaling a high mountain). Write down how it makes you feel, be it confident, nervous, or proud.
- List four people who you admire, then write down the qualities in them that are so inspiring. Think about how you can incorporate those qualities into your own life. Look at the list when you need guidance, want inspiration, or just for fun.
- What adventures and goals do you have for the future? Write a Life List. Don’t worry if they seem impossible, just write them down.
- Learn to ask for what you want. Write down four things you want that a person can grant if asked.
- Now write down the name of the person you would have to ask and the sentence you need to say in order to obtain it.
- Write “I want to gain confidence in . . .” and fill in the blank.
Now, go off and embark on your “grand journey of leadership, bravery, humor, intermittent failures, repeated successes, serial resilience, sporadic embarrassments, exhilaration, connection, and utmost joy…”