|Sam, played by Emma Watson, and Charlie, who appears to have PTSD, by Logan Lerman. From guardian.co.uk|
The film hit home hard on many levels. The story of Charlie, a high-school "wallflower" affected by mental health problems, seemed all too familiar. I was practically his female equivalent when in secondary school. He says the wrong thing, and then he worries incessantly about the consequences. His family believe that everything is fine, and that he will automatically make friends at a new school. He's tormented by troubling memories, including his best friend's suicide and a history of childhood abuse that's gradually unveiled. Charlie cannot blame others; instead he manages to find reasons to relieve them of it. For instance, that they had a hard life, they had relationship troubles, they were treated unfairly. This attitude continues until his feelings bottle over after a breakdown. For someone with PTSD, this film was emotional to watch.
Another aspect I related to greatly was the relief Charlie finds in literature and music. The friendly, supportive bond he forms with his English teacher is admirable, and it even makes me consider the job for myself. The teacher, played by Paul Rudd so well, helps a student like Charlie in what I see as the best way possible: he shares books with him. By giving him literature like Gatsby and The Catcher in the Rye, Charlie finds he can trust him. Charlie knows that he can ask him about almost anything, even love. Teachers should take notes on Paul Rudd's performance. For anyone nerdy like me, below is a list of the texts that Charlie receives in the novel. It's interesting to consider how reading the following would shape a young person...
Books mentioned in The Perks of Being a Wallflower:
- To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
- This Side of Paradise by F. Scott Fitzgerald
- A Separate Peace by John Knowles
- Peter Pan by J. M. Barrie
- The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
- The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger
- On the Road by Jack Kerouac
- Naked Lunch by William S. Burroughs
- Walden by Henry David Thoreau
- Hamlet by William Shakespeare
- The Stranger by Albert Camus
- The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand
The film's ending is positive, I'd conclude. Charlie's family is now aware of his trauma, and this hopefully suggests that his recovery will be actively overseen by them. Charlie is in contact with his friends Patrick and Sam after a brief friendship hiccup, and he has his typewriter for cathartic release. I'm sure that the post-plot Charlie will pull through, as we all will too.
So, I guess we are who we are for alot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.Here's a link to the novel, if you're interested in buying it.
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